💙 WHY JOIN TEMPLE BETH EL OF PATCHOGUE?

At Temple Beth El, membership is about more than attending services. It is about belonging to a Jewish community where you and your family can worship, celebrate, learn, connect, and be supported through every stage of life.

Whether you are looking for a place to deepen your Jewish connection, meet new people, raise your family, celebrate holidays, learn something new, or simply feel at home in a Jewish community, there is a place for you at TBE.

We are proud to be known as the friendly temple—a place where people know your name, welcome you through the doors, and genuinely want you to feel that you belong.

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✡️ AS A TBE MEMBER, YOU CAN…

🕍 Worship & Celebrate Together

• Attend all religious services at Temple Beth El, both in person and on Zoom

• Receive High Holy Days tickets for up to two adults, plus children under 25 at no additional charge

• Purchase additional High Holy Days tickets for extended family at a discounted rate

• Take advantage of reciprocal High Holy Days tickets for family members who belong to another synagogue

• Request a Yahrzeit minyan when needed

• Enjoy the warmth and fellowship of our Friday night onegs and Shabbat morning kiddush

• Celebrate Jewish holidays and traditions together with your TBE family

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❤️ Be There for Life's Most Important Moments

A synagogue is more than a place you go to pray. It is a community that is there for you during life's most meaningful moments.

Our rabbi and Ritual Committee can assist with life-cycle events including:

• 👶 Brit Milah and Baby Namings

• ✡️ B'nai Mitzvah

• 💍 Weddings

• 🕯️ End-of-life care

• 🕊️ Funerals and Shiva

Membership means knowing that you don't have to navigate life's important Jewish moments alone.

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📚 Learn, Grow & Explore

Jewish learning doesn't stop when you leave religious school. At TBE, there are opportunities to learn, ask questions, explore Jewish traditions, and discover something new.

• Participate in Adult Education programs at special members-only rates

• Attend lectures, discussions, Nosh & Learns, guest speaker presentations, and other educational programs

• Explore Jewish history, culture, traditions, and contemporary Jewish life

• Receive our monthly Spotlight newsletter, keeping you connected to everything happening at TBE

• Receive weekly email updates about upcoming services, programs, and events

• Enroll in Hebrew School when our new program launches

You don't have to know all the answers. Come with your questions.

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🤝 Find Your Community

One of the greatest benefits of belonging to a synagogue is finding people who become friends, neighbors, and part of your extended Jewish family.

There are so many ways to make Temple Beth El your own:

• Meet new people and build lasting friendships

• Participate in our social, educational, and religious programs

• Join Sisterhood or Men's Club

• Participate in committees and help shape the future of our congregation

• Volunteer and share your talents with the community

• Attend and vote at congregational meetings

• Become eligible to serve on the Board of Directors after one year of membership

Whether you want to be deeply involved or simply want a place to come and connect, there is a place for you here.

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🎉 Enjoy More of What TBE Has to Offer

Membership opens the door to even more opportunities to connect and participate.

• Take part in the many celebrations, gatherings, and programs that make TBE a vibrant community

• Receive members-only pricing for many programs and events

• Receive a discounted rental rate for our social hall for your private events

• Enjoy opportunities to gather with other members throughout the year

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🌟 YOUR MEMBERSHIP MAKES A DIFFERENCE

Every member plays an important role in helping Temple Beth El thrive.

Your membership dues help us:

• 🏠 Maintain our synagogue and keep our building welcoming and safe

• ✡️ Support religious services and Jewish programming

• 📚 Provide educational opportunities for children and adults

• ❤️ Support our congregation through life's important moments

• 🤝 Create opportunities for our community to come together

• 🌱 Build a strong future for Jewish life in Patchogue and the surrounding communities

But membership is about more than financial support.

It is about showing up.

It is about connecting.

It is about celebrating Jewish life together.

It is about making sure there is a vibrant Jewish home in our community for generations to come.

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💙 A COMMUNITY WHERE EVERYONE IS WELCOME

At Temple Beth El, there is a place for everyone.

We welcome individuals and families regardless of age, marital status, race, ethnic or cultural background, level of religious observance, or ability.

LGBTQ+ individuals and families are welcome. Interfaith and intermarried families are welcome.

You don't have to fit a particular mold to be part of TBE.

We will meet you where you are.

Come as you are. Bring your questions. Bring your family. Bring your traditions—and your curiosity.

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🏡 COME SEE WHAT WE'RE BUILDING TOGETHER

You don't have to decide if Temple Beth El is right for you from a website.

Come visit us.

Join us for Shabbat. Attend an event. Meet our members. Stay for kiddush. Ask questions. Get to know us.

You may come as a visitor—

but you just might leave feeling like you belong.

💙 Temple Beth El of Patchogue

A Place to Belong. A Community to Call Home.

FAQ

What do I get for my membership dues?

A lot! You get a sacred community made up of caring clergy, staff and synagogue members to help you learn and grow, to celebrate your blessings with you and support you through life's challenges. You get a community of friends who share life’s experiences. You will be celebrated for your accomplishments and challenged to improve yourself and your world. You will be a part of congregation that has been flourishing for well over 120 years. You will have the satisfaction of knowing that you are supporting the continuation of Jewish life in Suffolk County, and in the world. 

What is the process for joining Temple Beth El?

It's easy. Simply contact the office at (631) 475-1882  or email tbepatchogue@gmail.com.  We will answer your questions, take you on a tour and explain the benefits of membership. We will also put you in touch with Rabbi Faber, who will meet with you in person, or chat on the phone, whichever you prefer. When you are ready to join us, simply fill out the confidential membership application found below and then one of our Co-Presidents, Cheryl Gavin or David Stern, will be in touch.

What if I can't afford membership?

No one is turned away for financial reasons. Special new first-time membership programs are available as well as a membership assistance program. When you are ready to discuss finances, if you have a concern, you can have a private and confidential conversation with one of our Co-Presidents, and together you will come up with a plan that works for you and your family. 

What if I am part of an Interfaith family?

Our goal is to help every family feel comfortable in our congregation, and we warmly welcome interfaith couples and families. A non-Jewish partner or parent can participate in most aspects of Jewish ritual. During a baby naming, or Bar/Bat mitzvah, the non-Jewish parent traditionally joins their spouse and child on the bima based on the rules of conservative Judaism. The non-Jewish parent may also deliver an English reading as part of the Bar or Bat Mitzvah service. All are welcome and encouraged to participate in Beth El committee life and events.  

Do we have to be a member in order for our child to attend Hebrew School?

Yes, membership is required to attend Temple Beth El’s Hebrew School.  For full information on our re-envisioned educational program, please contact the office at (631) 475-1882 (or email tbepatchogue@gmail.com)

I am unable to attend services/programs in person, but want to be affiliated with a synagogue and would like to attend services on Zoom, can I?

Yes, we offer an Associate Member program for those that are unable to join us in person but want to attend services on Zoom. Please contact the office at (631) 475-1882 (or email tbepatchogue@gmail.com) and ask for the details.

Click here to complete an Online Membership Registration Form 

Click Here to print a copy of our membership application to complete