WHY SHOULD YOU CONSIDER JOINING TEMPLE BETH EL?

Joining a synagogue offers several benefits, including a sense of community, spiritual connection, and support for Jewish life.

Community and Connection:

• TBE is a gathering place for Jewish individuals, creating a sense of belonging and shared identity. 

• We offer opportunities to connect with others who share your faith and values, fostering friendships and social networks. 

• We are the center of Jewish community life in Patchogue and many of the surrounding communities- hosting events, celebrations, and social gatherings. 

Spiritual and Religious Life:

• We provide a space for Jewish prayer, study, and observance of religious practices. 

• We offer a place to deepen your understanding of Judaism and connect with your faith in a meaningful way. 

• We can provide support during times of need, offering prayers for healing and comfort. 

Support and Education:

• We offer resources for Jewish education, including Hebrew school (we are currently developing a new model of instruction and religious education programs (we call them Nosh & Learns), as well as guest speaker presentations.

• We can help you learn about Jewish history, culture and traditions.

• We can provide guidance and support for life transitions like weddings, births, and deaths. 

• We can connect you with a rabbi or other Jewish leaders who can offer guidance and support. 

We do all this and MORE in a welcoming environment that accepts any member of the Jewish faith-there is a place for everyone at TBE– no matter their age, marital status, race, ethnic background, or level of observance or ability.  LGBTQ families are welcome.  Intermarried Jews/Interfaith families are welcomed.  

We will meet you where you are and know that when you meet us, you will see why we are known as the FRIENDLY temple. 

FAQ

What do I get for my membership dues?

A lot! You get a sacred community made up of caring clergy, staff and synagogue members to help you learn and grow, to celebrate your blessings with you and support you through life's challenges. You get a community of friends who share life’s experiences. You will be celebrated for your accomplishments and challenged to improve yourself and your world. You will be a part of congregation that has been flourishing for well over 120 years. You will have the satisfaction of knowing that you are supporting the continuation of Jewish life in Suffolk County, and in the world. 

What is the process for joining Temple Beth El?

It's easy. Simply contact the office at (631) 475-1882  or email tbepatchogue@gmail.com.  We will answer your questions, take you on a tour and explain the benefits of membership. We will also put you in touch with Rabbi Pardo, who will meet with you in person, or chat on the phone, whichever you prefer. When you are ready to join us, simply fill out the confidential membership application found below and then one of our Co-Presidents, Cheryl Gavin or David Stern, will be in touch.

What if I can't afford membership?

No one is turned away for financial reasons. Special new first-time membership programs are available as well as a membership assistance program. When you are ready to discuss finances, if you have a concern, you can have a private and confidential conversation with one of our Co-Presidents, and together you will come up with a plan that works for you and your family. 

Do I receive High Holiday tickets with my membership?

Yes! All synagogue members in good standing will receive 2 tickets. Additional tickets may be purchased if needed.  Family members who belong to their own synagogue may participate in our Reciprocal Ticket Program- contact us for the details.

What if I am part of an Interfaith family?

Our goal is to help every family feel comfortable in our congregation, and we warmly welcome interfaith couples and families. A non-Jewish partner or parent can participate in most aspects of Jewish ritual. During a baby naming, or Bar/Bat mitzvah, the non-Jewish parent traditionally joins their spouse and child on the bima based on the rules of conservative Judaism. The non-Jewish parent may also deliver an English reading as part of the Bar or Bat Mitzvah service. All are welcome and encouraged to participate in Beth El committee life and events.  

Do we have to be a member in order for our child to attend Hebrew School?

Yes, membership is required to attend Temple Beth El’s Hebrew School.  For full information on our re-envisioned educational program, please contact the office at (631) 475-1882 (or email tbepatchogue@gmail.com)

I am unable to attend services/programs in person, but want to be affiliated with a synagogue and would like to attend services on Zoom, can I?

Yes, we offer an Associate Member program for those that are unable to join us in person but want to attend services on Zoom. Please contact the office at (631) 475-1882 (or email tbepatchogue@gmail.com) and ask for the details.

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